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My parents made the decision to sell their house in Phoenix and move into an assisted living facility. So, my sisters, my brother-in-law and I will help them clear out a 1600 sq ft home and move into a 650 sq ft, 1 bedroom, 1 bath apartment. This is something they have talked about for a while and been a concern with my sisters, my brother-in-law and I for awhile. My parents finally asked my sister, Marcee, if she would check on everything, the facility and the money. She did a wonderful job of presenting them the options of staying in their house or living in an assisted living facility, then letting them make the decision themselves. It seems we all agree it’s a good decision. I fly out tomorrow for Phoenix. Not sure how long I will be gone so my posts may be sporadic or nothing at all. Enjoy your weekend! Oh, and Happy May Day!
8 Comments
Faye
May you have a safe and productive trip. That is a major life change but it sounds like they’re ready for it. A house is a lot to worry about so I know they’ll enjoy a more carefree lifestyle. Good luck!
Monte Stevens
Thank you, Faye! Yes, I think they are ready. It is not as easy for them as it was in the past. Having someone cook, laundry, prescribe medications, will be a relief. My mom fell recently and dad was not able to pick her up and had to call for help.
Earl
Monte, it’s good your parents were key in making the decision. It’s a decision many of us, if we’re lucky enough to live so long, are healthy, and are financially able, will one day be faced with. Some of the assisted living facilities in this area are very nice but also costly. I wish them the very best experience, and hopefully, you will have a productive and positive visit. Take care!
Monte Stevens
You’re right, Earl. My sister and brother-in-law did not push them but only gave them the options available. Marcee figured he could live to 103 before money becomes and issue. Thank, my friend.
Tom Dills
That’s a difficult decision, but best that they are able to make the decision themselves with the support of their children. Even better when everyone is on board and comfortable with it. Good luck with the move – that is never a fun process.
Monte Stevens
I’m expecting the cleaning out of the house to be emotional for all of us. May be some tears and some good laughter, which are what we need. Hope you two are having fun. I will check on you blog later.
Joe
We did that for my mom 4 years ago and though she wasn’t enthused she now says it’s the best thing for her. Good luck with the move!
Monte Stevens
Thanks, Joe. Right now they are excited about the move.