Solitude is a state of hospitality, a welcoming of all that needs attention. Solitude offers a ground that is embracing and inclusive. Everything can be made welcome in the broad arms of solitude, even fear. For as long as humans have sought counsel with the sacred, much of it has happened in a space set apart from others. Here, in silence and nourishing aloneness, we can become receptive to the influence of soul…
Francis Weller
Even more so since Covid I intentionally seek out times and places for solitude. I also am now prone to shun away from large crowds, being more comfortable with one on one situations for coffee or lunch. I am more welcoming to those broad arms and hospitality of solitude.
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Earl
As an introvert, I find joy in spending time alone, and solitude serves as a relaxing and recharging experience for me. However, some people may find solitude stressful and draining, just as I feel overwhelmed by being in large social crowds for extended periods. With practice, we can learn to feel more comfortable stepping outside our natural boundaries, but I believe there isn’t just one answer or path to discovering your sacred self. He’s not wrong, but Francis Weller’s message likely resonates more deeply with introverts.
Monte Stevens
You are so right, my friend, there is no one answer. I have friends who do not deal with solitude well and thrive when they are around people. They seem to find energy from people while I come away drained.
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