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    Well Worth the Effort

    “There are a hundred paths through the world that are easier than loving.
    But, who wants easier?”

    Mary Oliver

    I finally got in my much needed bicycle ride yesterday afternoon. I rode out to Spring Canyon Park and back, a 5.9 mile ride. The last time I rode was December 27th. It felt good physically and mentally to ride again. I followed that up with a round trip ride to Mugs and back this morning, about 5.4 miles. My Fitbit is telling me to take it easy and go slower and I am. It has been cloudy and overcast today with the wind gusting up to 16 mph but the temperature is 68 degrees. Winter is not showing up in Colorado. The above image was taken last week on a drive along Horsetooth Reservoir. Love the blue and the effort!

    For many years I had no clue what love was. I guess you can say I took a lot of those paths Mary Oliver mentions in search of it , while not really knowing what I was looking for. It also took a while to realize how I had love, lust and desires all tangled up in my head. I am happy to say that the past 25-30 years have given me an appreciation of all the varieties of love we can experience in life and the wisdom that there is no need to define love, but only experience the gift of loving and being loved. It requires knowing ourselves, letting go of preconditioned notions of love, taking risks, being open to the other, and an openness to the unlimited possibilities. That’s true whether loving or being loved. As Mary suggests it is not easy but in my experience, well worth the effort! I would even suggest it’s much easier than being full of hate. I hope you are having a good day.

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    Dreams and Gifts

    Dreaming

    “Gifts,” powers, material, intellectual, and spiritual possessions are the fruits of the effort; they are thoughts completed, objects accomplished, visions realized. 

    As a Man Thinketh by James Allen

    I bought Allen’s book a while back and quickly read through it then placed it on the shelf. Today I found myself reaching for it and skimming over a few pages. I must admit I like some of the ideas he presents but reading the words quoted above have caused me to spend more time in reflection. When I come across something I’ve read that strikes a chord it can behoove me to chew on it, there is usually some important message for me to learn.

    I remembered lying on the couch in my parents living room and dreaming about the life I wanted rather than the life in front of me: the girlfriend I wanted to have but was afraid of the possible rejection, or being the hero on the football team but was afraid I wouldn’t make the team. I considered myself a dreamer in a negative way with most of my dreams being nothing more than fantasy. But, maybe the dreams were viable thoughts for the future in my life while the negative thoughts I placed on those dreams was what was projected in my life. As life has given me lessons of experience, my views of these dreams and fantasies has changed. What would happen if we worked on our dreams as goals rather than seeing them as fantasy and not believing in their fulfillment? There is a saying that dreams without action are nothing more than fantasy.

    Photographers who dream ideas and then work towards them without limitations will see those dreams accomplished. Photographers who do not pursue their dreams will not live the life they dreamed. Yes they will only be fantasy. What are our dreams and what steps do we need to take to make them come true? Once we take the steps then the “Gifts” will be given to us as fruition of our efforts. Excuse me while I go take a few images.