We had my mother’s graveside service this past Thursday morning, just a small gathering of family and friends. It was good for me to meet my mothers best friend since high school for the first time. They were each others maid of honor. Saw family I’d not seen in a while. And, of course we always say how we only meet at funerals anymore. My sister and I returned late Thursday evening so it was a quick trip. Found myself emotional and crying yesterday morning. I’ve heard it said that greif does not go away but only becomes different. The grieving process.
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Bonnie Moore
I believe that’s true about grief–it doesn’t go away but it does morph into something different. And the only way around is through. I learned the hard way you can’t ignore grief or push it aside. And it can rise up at the strangest times. The best advice I received was this: try to walk along side what appears to be your life before the loss. At some point you may want to step back on your merry-go-round. And you’ll know when that is. For now, just be.
Monte Stevens
Thank you for your wise words! And, I’m hoping to “just be”, which also morphs. If that means a few tears and some shouting, then so be it. 🤗
Faye
I understand. My mother passed away right years ago and every day I wish I could talk to her again. May your memories of her bring comfort to you.
Monte Stevens
Thank you, Faye! I’ve already wished I’d asked her more questions to know more about her or to just talk.